When you enjoy life you stay focus and yes everyone is responsible for there actions. Let’s not get it twisted and judge anyone there is always more than one side to the flip coin.
You have to believe and achieve in yourself spiritual, mentally, and physically. Everyone has a mind of there own and when your looking to become successful that’s in your own rights. Never let anyone detour you into not receiving your blessings in life.
Stay positive, stay focus, and believe that you will achieve that is The Secret…Dream